You're all so lovely, I don't know what I'd do without you x
Paul and I took Gary in for 3 o'clock and at first he was fine, making a huge effort although I had to give him another Lorazepam at 1 o'clock. The nurse and psychiatrist were lovely with him and did all the usual medical checks - Gary held it all together beautifully, as they do!
Paul and I had time with the psychiatrist on our own - at last! and were able to tell him every thing. He'll be there at least for a week but I suspect it may be longer but what I didn't want to hear was that they may not be able to change anything because if they can't......I won't be able to do this any longer. One of us will get hurt. By the time we were about to leave Gary was kicking off again and trying to get out so we left while he was storming into the loo - the only unlocked door there. I didn't think there was any point in telling him we were going, it would have just inflamed him more.
I hated it but Paul pointed out that what ever he was feeling there he'd be feeling at home, which is true but it's heart over head isn't it? I felt dreadful as we left but by the time we got home I felt relaxed for the first time in I don't know how long
I've just had a call from the unit - they've had to use retraint on Gary and have given him a second dose of lorazepam within an hour and may have to resort to an injection. They can keep him there for 6 hours on the nurses authority then a further 72 hours on a doctors authority - I've told them I want him sectioned if necessary - I can't do this alone anymore. My heart is breaking
Paul and I took Gary in for 3 o'clock and at first he was fine, making a huge effort although I had to give him another Lorazepam at 1 o'clock. The nurse and psychiatrist were lovely with him and did all the usual medical checks - Gary held it all together beautifully, as they do!
Paul and I had time with the psychiatrist on our own - at last! and were able to tell him every thing. He'll be there at least for a week but I suspect it may be longer but what I didn't want to hear was that they may not be able to change anything because if they can't......I won't be able to do this any longer. One of us will get hurt. By the time we were about to leave Gary was kicking off again and trying to get out so we left while he was storming into the loo - the only unlocked door there. I didn't think there was any point in telling him we were going, it would have just inflamed him more.
I hated it but Paul pointed out that what ever he was feeling there he'd be feeling at home, which is true but it's heart over head isn't it? I felt dreadful as we left but by the time we got home I felt relaxed for the first time in I don't know how long
I've just had a call from the unit - they've had to use retraint on Gary and have given him a second dose of lorazepam within an hour and may have to resort to an injection. They can keep him there for 6 hours on the nurses authority then a further 72 hours on a doctors authority - I've told them I want him sectioned if necessary - I can't do this alone anymore. My heart is breaking