Not sure what stage my OH is at but FTD is certainly taking over. Searching for words and ocd is escalating rapidly. Hiding things seems to be worse now. Toothbrush and toothpaste go missing daily, found them both under the pillow in the bed and also his glasses, a daily occurrence now. He’s convinced someone has moved them, even blames grandkids, but usually blames me of course! He’s always waiting for the postman, I have to be quick to intercept any mail or that goes missing as well. Time is non existent, has no idea what that is, half an hour might as well be a few hours, if we have an appointment he’s always ready hours before and gets anxious waiting to go even though I’ve explained it’s not time yet. Can’t retain information but asks at a later time about what was said earlier, so frustrating having to repeat everything over and over. Then he wants to ring his friend to tell him any news but it’s just a muddle and I have to intervene. Saying that though he can recall his working life well and loves reminiscing. Every day everything in his room gets moved around, hence can’t find anything , so difficult going for check ups at the neurologists, he comes across so well when asked how he is, the dr isn’t getting full picture and asks me in front of him how things are? It’s ridiculous as I can’t talk in front of him as he thinks he is ok and if I told the truth he would be angry with me and as all letters from the specialist come as a copy to us first I wouldn’t want to be quoted as he has some understanding, so very difficult situation, if anyone has any ideas on this it would be appreciated. I don’t want him to think I am going behind his back.