Mil Very Near End Of Life ??
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Hi & Thanks for your kind word & thoughts
Mil still with us
She`s not quite as agitated,more settled now
She was chatting a little but for the first time it was as though she was getting out of breath so I asked her to calm down and have a sleep
Which she has and i still doing
So I did the ironing
whilst watching her
She is one tough lady x x
Mil still with us
She`s not quite as agitated,more settled now
She was chatting a little but for the first time it was as though she was getting out of breath so I asked her to calm down and have a sleep
Which she has and i still doing
So I did the ironing
whilst watching her She is one tough lady x x
She is amazing. That sleep may be a sign that she is getting ready to let go.
Holding you in my thoughts xx
Holding you in my thoughts xx
She certainly is Amazing as she`s still with us
Her hands are Grey/lilac colour and her feet purpley/Blue
I do not know where her energy is coming from !!!
She still has this burst of energy
She will only take water nothing else
I am so confused
I dont know if this is normal or not
x x x
Her hands are Grey/lilac colour and her feet purpley/Blue
I do not know where her energy is coming from !!!
She still has this burst of energy
She will only take water nothing else
I am so confused
I dont know if this is normal or not
x x x
I think so. You can talk about it with the GP. But I think we can live for a long long time with just water.
I hope she is peaceful.
I hope she is peaceful.
Hi
I know this must be an incredibly stressful time for you. Hang on in there, keep talking to her (they say the hearing is the last sense to go) and stroking her head. It sounds as if she will pass very peacefully before long - a good death. Are you getting any support from the district nurses? MY Dad died at home last week and the nurses were fantastic.
Thinking of you. Anne x
I know this must be an incredibly stressful time for you. Hang on in there, keep talking to her (they say the hearing is the last sense to go) and stroking her head. It sounds as if she will pass very peacefully before long - a good death. Are you getting any support from the district nurses? MY Dad died at home last week and the nurses were fantastic.
Thinking of you. Anne x
Thinking of you Carara
I think you are being very brave. I hope the peacefulness continues.
Don't forget to take care of yourself.
Love from Lyn T
I think you are being very brave. I hope the peacefulness continues.
Don't forget to take care of yourself.
Love from Lyn T
Hi Carara,
You are facilitating a gentle letting go of life. Time slows right down. After all the turmoil of dementia, it is wonderful that she gets to die a gentle and peaceful death, like relaxing out of life into the next world.
There is no hurrying nature, and nature knows best just when. We can only be bystanders. You are amazing. Give your special man a big hug too....
Thank you for sharing this. It will happen to us all one day.
Very intimate glimpses into end of life.
Hugs to you Carara, BE
You are facilitating a gentle letting go of life. Time slows right down. After all the turmoil of dementia, it is wonderful that she gets to die a gentle and peaceful death, like relaxing out of life into the next world.
There is no hurrying nature, and nature knows best just when. We can only be bystanders. You are amazing. Give your special man a big hug too....
Thank you for sharing this. It will happen to us all one day.
Very intimate glimpses into end of life.
Hugs to you Carara, BE
hiShe certainly is Amazing as she`s still with us
Her hands are Grey/lilac colour and her feet purpley/Blue
I do not know where her energy is coming from !!!
She still has this burst of energy
She will only take water nothing else
I am so confused
I dont know if this is normal or not
x x x
Having recently lost dad. Carers kept coming in to check his hands and feet.we were told that as the body starts to shut down. It stops pumping blood to extremeties. Hence cold and blue
We were told it was a sign the end was coming...though dads were never really that cold
Thinking of you today. You will be drained and exhausted but keep hanging in there. You are doing so well. I lost all track of time by this stage and lost the ability to think or reason. I am keeping you in my prayers xxxx
Hiya
Mil still with us and very different today
She`s been crying so much and very very aggitated
Hubby calmed her down as I couldnt which is unusual now as I can normally
Hands & feet bluey grey/purple and her face is pinky purple mottled
Yesterday she had a drink of tea via sponge and choked terribly
I honest & truthfully don`t know how she`s still going on but he is
Even the carers are baffled by her and I dont think the doctor thought he`d last until now
x x x
Mil still with us and very different today
She`s been crying so much and very very aggitated
Hubby calmed her down as I couldnt which is unusual now as I can normally
Hands & feet bluey grey/purple and her face is pinky purple mottled
Yesterday she had a drink of tea via sponge and choked terribly
I honest & truthfully don`t know how she`s still going on but he is
Even the carers are baffled by her
and I dont think the doctor thought he`d last until nowx x x
and my `s` on the keyboard is playing up
when I say he up there ^^^^ I obviously mean she
*bangs the s so it works *
when I say he up there ^^^^ I obviously mean she
*bangs the s so it works *
have nothing to say except that I read your post and wish I could do something. I hope it all gets more peaceful soon....
Hoping that peace will come, in whatever form, along with strength. It sounds so difficult for all.
Take care,
Stephanie, xxx
Take care,
Stephanie, xxx
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