Forgot to say 6wks ago the crisis team came out, they referred us to SS, they said l was not safe to be at home with him.
They told me they got another carer in for l to l, l have not been to see him, sons say he looks terrible, it would upset me too much, what do you think?
Thank you Kjn l do not feel strong enough to see him, he cannot remember who took him to the home, which was me!! he hasn't mentioned me. So it is best that l do not go, although l feel l have abandoned him.
Thank you Kjn l do not feel strong enough to see him, he cannot remember who took him to the home, which was me!! he hasn't mentioned me. So it is best that l do not go, although l feel l have abandoned him.
Abandoned him Never! I'm going to repeat myself now! The CH says not to visit-they will contact you if the need arises. Your Son says not to visit-take the advice of both. Once, when Pete was highly distressed, the CH phoned to let me know so I went along earlier than usual; the longer I stayed the worse Pete became Eventually they asked me to leave Sometimes you just can't win. Pam you REALLY haven't abandoned your OH.
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Lyn T XX
Thank you everyone l am just being silly l know, all your advice has helped me so much, l do have lots of support from my 2 bowls clubs, l do have plenty to do which helps take your mind off of what is going on. Thank you again xxx