Hi Winnie
Yes, it's a long thread, and difficult to find the info you want. Brief update:
John has been in a care home for two years now, he completely lost mobility as a result of a severe UTI. I couldn't manage him at home, because he's 6'2", and weighs 13st. He also hasn't spoken in all that time, beyond the odd yes or no.
He is now into heart failure (diagnosed the day before I went on holiday!
), and that is why he has fluid on the lungs. They're now testing the function of his other organs.
He's on frusemide for the fluid, and is also on an antibiotic at present for his chest. Apart from that he doesn't have any other medication.
It's sad, but his dementia is now so far advanced they don't think the heart failure will affect his life-expectancy.
Your husband has had chest problems for a long time. Has it been investigated?
Love,