@RM3 , whilst we were waiting for my OH diagnosis he would say how forgetful he was ,how he couldn't get things right anymore. He was aware there was something not right . He would say he was getting dopier and dopier. He also used to say his head hurt. I'm not sure in what way because he would say different and heavy! I secretly wondered if pwd could feel the brain shrinking!
It took nearly a year to get his diagnosis,it was lockdown, and by the time he had it he had stopped acknowledging his problems and hasn't ever mentioned it since! I mentioned it initially but he showed little understanding or maybe his denial.
Do you think when your husband tells people he is looking for reassurance that he's ok . You know " don't be silly , you're fine" type of response or is he preparing folk because he knows something isn't right?
Try not to overthink. He's obviously changed and you need to know why . Hope you don't have to wait too long. X
It took nearly a year to get his diagnosis,it was lockdown, and by the time he had it he had stopped acknowledging his problems and hasn't ever mentioned it since! I mentioned it initially but he showed little understanding or maybe his denial.
Do you think when your husband tells people he is looking for reassurance that he's ok . You know " don't be silly , you're fine" type of response or is he preparing folk because he knows something isn't right?
Try not to overthink. He's obviously changed and you need to know why . Hope you don't have to wait too long. X