Thank you. It’s a really hard wait isn’t it - questioning everything. It has been a lovely holiday so far - much needed time together, a break from the routine. Planning to make the most of the last couple of days and just enjoy each others company.I understand completely it is upsetting But if he has got Alzheimers there is medication available My husband says & does odd things but I still love him dearly I went to
A carers meeting today & there were people from our Monday group there it was lovely they were all saying what a happy person my husband is & one lady said how she loves seeing me & my husband together this meant a lot to me I’ve also had a book called contented dementia recommended for me I remember only too well my husband saying unusual things & trying to ignore it But all
I can say it was almost a relief once we got his diagnosis as I knew what we had to deal with Until you’ve had all the tests done try not to worry as it won’t change things it is hard I know only too well But from what I’ve read
people who have a deep love that won’t change things will be different but you can adjust with help If it is Alzheimers then i
Would really advise joining groups they have really kept me going After the weekend when I wasn’t feeling well i decided I needed to start get out with my friends & it’s helping a lot Off to see a friend tomorrow while OH is out with his brother Try & enjoy your holiday Not too long to find out one way or another sending love & hugs x
Your groups really do sound very friendly and supportive. I will look the book up that you have had recommended.
Enjoy your time out with you friend tomorrow (refilling your cup as was said previously). I hope your husband has a nice time too with his brother.
Thank you as always and sending love and hugs back x