My long list of battles with LA,SW's and NHS over Mom's care has now reached Top up fee payments.
I am still awaiting an appeal decision on a discretionary disregard and the LA are continuing as if that has been declined. I intend to still be living in Mom's house in 6 years time when I reach 60 so if nothing changes it will then be disregarded.
I have refused to sign the form stating I will pay the top up direct to the home. Firstly because I asked if Mom could pay them herself and SW said "NO". Then secondly because IF I do agree to pay the top up I would rather the LA pay the home and the LA bill me. That also got a "NO" but less emphatic than the first.
I do not think the SW is correct on either although doing a search on here with regard to the first most people say Mom cannot top up herself. Any thoughts?
I am still awaiting a list of homes that fall within the LA budget but am more than happy with the NH she is in now and will happily pay the £30/week extra if needs be.
I am still awaiting an appeal decision on a discretionary disregard and the LA are continuing as if that has been declined. I intend to still be living in Mom's house in 6 years time when I reach 60 so if nothing changes it will then be disregarded.
I have refused to sign the form stating I will pay the top up direct to the home. Firstly because I asked if Mom could pay them herself and SW said "NO". Then secondly because IF I do agree to pay the top up I would rather the LA pay the home and the LA bill me. That also got a "NO" but less emphatic than the first.
I do not think the SW is correct on either although doing a search on here with regard to the first most people say Mom cannot top up herself. Any thoughts?
I am still awaiting a list of homes that fall within the LA budget but am more than happy with the NH she is in now and will happily pay the £30/week extra if needs be.