Hi, both my parents were diagnosed with mixed dementia several years ago and are now both in their early nineties. With the support of myself, my brother and a carer 10 hours a week they have managed to remain living at home. I have given up my job to care for them as it became unsustainable to work full time and care for them both, but their increasing physical frailty and memory issues now mean that my brother and I feel they are no longer safe living at home and worry about them constantly. We think once settled into a care home they would thrive, but having brought the conversation up with them on several occasions, they become very distressed at the idea. My physical and emotional health are both suffering with the stress and I have reached out to this forum for any suggestions on how we move forward. Thank you.