Hello Dear One, you did in fact write back to me but even if you hadn’t it wouldn’t matter in the least as
@kindred has already reassured you. I am so sorry about the noise. It makes it so hard. With Mum, who was dying of stomach cancer, having been immobilised by a stroke and hence in nursing home already, the nurses were very protective and kept the other people’s TVs down. I do think they are a menace in individual rooms, with elderly people so deaf it’s so intrusive.
What a coincidence that you had just tried the silence approach, despite unfavourable circumstances due to TV noise! And prayer never, ever hurts. It helps the person praying, always, and I also believe that it helps the person prayed for. One doesn’t even need to use words, when they won’t come!
I hope today isn’t as bad as you fear. Waking to that dread you speak of is so hard. I am thinking of you HEAPS, dear
@Jezzer. Bear in mind, too, with the silence approach, that it only worked the once for me, but that time it really did. May it happen for you.
It is so very hard, in these times when death is so near, but everything is still so uncertain, not to panic and instead somehow to let oneself just feel the feelings and acknowledge that one is helpless and can’t do more.