Hello my wife who is 57 has started bringing to my attention objects being placed to form pattern for example a row of beads placed on the edge of raised flower bed or sticks pointing at a piece of plastic or a stick pointing at a piece of glass, which she is insisting has been purposely placed. . She is also saying things are being moved in her bedroom and if objects are placed on the table for example a set keys she question why one of the keys is pointing in a certain direction. There are many examples of this . If I accidentally drop a piece of litter eg a chocolate wrapper on the floor and don’t notice it and she finds it she believes I have put it there purposely to play tricks on her. She believes that because I deniy placing objects around or moving objects around to form strange patterns I am gaslighting her and arguments breaks out about this. I can be careless eg leave lids of tea lids, drop sweet wrappers, put things back in the wrong place etc but to her all this is done to trick or an attack on her. She claims to have 100s of pictures of moved items that have supposedly be placed in strange patterns or moved and even video of me placing items in the garden . Every time I ask to see this evidence she won’t show me any and says they are for her own viewing . This has caused both of us much upset , me being accused of something I’m not doing (purposely placing objects)and her believing she is the target of tricks and be gaslighted. I have done my best to describe what is happening and wonder if anyone has experienced similar behaviours, there is history of Alzheimer’s in the family. She has a very active mind and very capable in her daily life, but this strange behaviour which started about 9 months ago is concerning me, Thanks for reading
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