Hello & thanks in advanced for reading our saga ..
My mum was placed in a care home (Scotland ) July 2023.
She was diagnosed with mixed dementia & has chronic terminal lung conditions. I previously cared for her moving into her home for months but she had a lot of hospital admissions & medics refused to discharge her home ..
since moving into care she has improved with her dementia & has been assessed as having capacity.
Now the staff told her she could be living alone or with me if she had a care package..
Mums house sale is two weeks away from concluding .. she thought she may buy a house with her profit for us to live together. I had an advisory call with her SW .. there was no decision made at all.. it was me looking for guidance only.
Now the LA have issued a charging order on her property.. our lawyer is fighting this . No where did we say we would not pay back any money due & she would not be spending all of her profits on a new home.
I feel we are being put under huge stress & it’s not helpful for mum.
I am really suffering from severe anxiety etc because I’m afraid the house sale will fail . POA was removed & I feel that as she has capacity Sw should be talking to her & explaining clearly the whole situation.
Sorry for the rant I would welcome any advice.
Kind Regards
My mum was placed in a care home (Scotland ) July 2023.
She was diagnosed with mixed dementia & has chronic terminal lung conditions. I previously cared for her moving into her home for months but she had a lot of hospital admissions & medics refused to discharge her home ..
since moving into care she has improved with her dementia & has been assessed as having capacity.
Now the staff told her she could be living alone or with me if she had a care package..
Mums house sale is two weeks away from concluding .. she thought she may buy a house with her profit for us to live together. I had an advisory call with her SW .. there was no decision made at all.. it was me looking for guidance only.
Now the LA have issued a charging order on her property.. our lawyer is fighting this . No where did we say we would not pay back any money due & she would not be spending all of her profits on a new home.
I feel we are being put under huge stress & it’s not helpful for mum.
I am really suffering from severe anxiety etc because I’m afraid the house sale will fail . POA was removed & I feel that as she has capacity Sw should be talking to her & explaining clearly the whole situation.
Sorry for the rant I would welcome any advice.
Kind Regards