Hi. New to this forum. It loooks good. My mother moved into a care home two months ago. She kept falling at home with arthritis but also has early stage dementia. She is a real loner, almost a hermit. She hates being in a care home, wants to move into a flat and live alone. Says the careers don’t line her. Blames me for it all. very hard. I feel guilty, sorry for her. But I know it’s best. I see her 2-3 times a week. But wish I could help her settle and mix - she just stays in her room unless I visit and says she doesn’t want to meet anyone in the home.