Yes, you need to say, preferably in writing, that you have very good reasons for not wanting your husband to come home, either for visits or permanently. I'm not sure what you mean by 'I am also going to say I am only doing it with someone else'. If that means that you will have him home if someone else is with you that will encourage her to keep pushing it. Perhaps you should tell her that you're going to stop visiting for a while or as much as this seems to trigger your husband's demands to come home and encourage her to keep pushing home visits. If you waver she will take advantage. I think that she sees devoted wife = the husband can have whatever he wants regardless of the detriment to you. You might need to stop taking her calls or ending them as soon as she starts talking about visits.
If she keeps on pushing then file a complaint with the home, SS and the nursing regulatory body. Once you have been told to stop pushing something persisting with it is oppressive.
Your life is just as important as your husband's. You need to be able to recover from the trauma you have been through. Your husband is safe and is being cared for. Please don't agree to him coming home.
If she keeps on pushing then file a complaint with the home, SS and the nursing regulatory body. Once you have been told to stop pushing something persisting with it is oppressive.
Your life is just as important as your husband's. You need to be able to recover from the trauma you have been through. Your husband is safe and is being cared for. Please don't agree to him coming home.