Well today I am feeling a little upset, mum is not great at all and she managed to tell me she feels unwell on Saturday. I agreed she looked awful, withdrawn and purple complexion, not herself at all. I spoke with her nurse and she said they would keep an eye. I went back today and she is very much looking unwell, not responsive as usual and purple lips and hands and dusky fingers. I stayed with her for a while and for the first time she wasn't interested in her raspberry and almond bake cakes at all. I can't help feeling her heart failure is now becoming her most significant problem and there is nothing anyone can do, at least she has a pain patch on and she was not in pain when I saw her. I had another chat with her nurse for today and told her I had an uneasy feeling. I asked her to call me if there is any deterioration and I will come in. I feel so lost at times and today is one of those times. I feel guilty leaving her on a good day and this just magnifies that feeling. I don't want her to suffer but at the same time she is the last of my kin and a lifelong friend.