Hello
@Newanne
Did your husband seem to hate you before dementia was in his life?
A diagnosis causes some dreadful reactions, especially at the beginning when many want to fight the diagnosis. This might make them fight the partner/family member who accepts it.
I had a nightmare of a life when my husband was diagnosed even though dementia was never mentioned and we only discussed memory loss. I was accused of everything that was wrong with his life including causing his memory loss and taking away his independence.
You will be treading on eggshells for a while and I hope sharing your upset and despair on the forum will help.
If Things get too bad , contact the helpline and the admiral nurses
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Dementia UK is a charity that provides Admiral Nurses for families affected by dementia. Call our Dementia Helpline to find out how we can support you.
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