Honest to God if dealing with dementia wasn’t hard enough it’s the “professionals” that are pushing me to my absolute limit!
Mum was discharged from hospital to an assessment bed in a local care home on Tuesday afternoon.
She has dementia and also a 7cm calcified aorta aneurism in her abdomen - which it took the hospital 3 weeks to find by finally doing a much requested Xray due to the pain she was in - it took a threat to get that done!
The hospital said they were applying for DoLs when she was admitted mid December, but I’ve not had any further info on this. They have not devised any care plan either that I have seen.
In fact they stopped her reflux meds which has resulted in her being unwilling to eat at all.
The staff at the home are different everyday so I’ve not been able to pin anyone down for information there.
I have no idea who the resident GP is & mum hasn’t seen one there as yet,
On Friday someone called me & said she was scheduling the CHC assessment for 11 am Monday morning. It would be her - no idea who she is as never had any contact with her, myself and ‘nurse’. (No name given) from the home.
I do not have welfare LPA as it would take too long to apply for and I honestly don’t think I would get it in time for it to be if any use.
I’m really not happy, how do I stand with challenging the fact not one of them actually knows my mother? And the fact they do not have any detailed information for her?
Mum was discharged from hospital to an assessment bed in a local care home on Tuesday afternoon.
She has dementia and also a 7cm calcified aorta aneurism in her abdomen - which it took the hospital 3 weeks to find by finally doing a much requested Xray due to the pain she was in - it took a threat to get that done!
The hospital said they were applying for DoLs when she was admitted mid December, but I’ve not had any further info on this. They have not devised any care plan either that I have seen.
In fact they stopped her reflux meds which has resulted in her being unwilling to eat at all.
The staff at the home are different everyday so I’ve not been able to pin anyone down for information there.
I have no idea who the resident GP is & mum hasn’t seen one there as yet,
On Friday someone called me & said she was scheduling the CHC assessment for 11 am Monday morning. It would be her - no idea who she is as never had any contact with her, myself and ‘nurse’. (No name given) from the home.
I do not have welfare LPA as it would take too long to apply for and I honestly don’t think I would get it in time for it to be if any use.
I’m really not happy, how do I stand with challenging the fact not one of them actually knows my mother? And the fact they do not have any detailed information for her?