Thanks
I'm very grateful to you all who have put this into words for me.
Earlier thisevening we had a very brief power cut which not only knocked out the TV....
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but also sent the laptop and my mobile phone (which was on charge at the time) a bit haywire..
It's such a relief to have the laptop back and working...
Tonight is just like a re-run of last night, so far.
The carer came in and woke Eric up to finish getting him ready for bed, but he refused to go. So now he's back in his chair, ready for bed, and fast asleep. Out for the count.
We both tried to persuade Eric into bed but he wasn't having it, his face was set and he marched back into the lounge with his zimmer frame and plonked himself in his chair.
I could go to bed now and leave him. He's warm and safe as long as he doesn't try to move.
Or I can stay up and watch over him until he wakes.
Or I can try to wake him and get him into bed myself and hope that he'll sleep through....which is what I'll try to do.
Tomorrow I'll ring the Advocacy Service and ask if anyone can be present with me on Friday. Failing that my daughter has agreed to be here to back me up.
When I read through your summaries it really brings it home just how much there is to cope with.
Humble thanks to you all for your time and energy.
Love from ( a very weary) gigi
xx