hi everyone and thank you. Am a bit "out of it" still but sending support and blessings to you all.
Aisling xxxxx
True, Aisling. I guess it can also hit if there are Portents of Doom visiting, and spreading their cloak of gloom over the person!
I sound like I'm defending them, I'm not really, they should be taking their lead from you. You know exactly the best ways to ensure T doesn't get distressed, but I really think some people just don't and cannot understand. There are also those who think they know better and just don't listen. Whichever category this particular invisible falls into I don't blame you for losing it with them, if they could not see that they were upsetting T they needed to be told no question about it! xI was with T today and lost the plot!! Invisible with him with a face that would turn milk sour. Not a word to T till she was going, then it was "goodbye with sad face. She saw another man and kept asking T if he know this man.... You should know him etc etc. kept insisting that T knew him. I lost it and said "you are upsetting T with these questions. How many times must I tell you that questions only confuse and upset him? Daggers drawn !! I was furious. Do some people not understand or not listen? She went off. I apologised to the man and explained quietly to him that T has Alyzheimers. He understood and told me that he knew him. He told T about things tim had done with his horses etc and this clicked, result a two way chat and T all smiles TG
I am angry with myself for loosing the plot but am sick and tired trying to explain to invisibles about the best way of supporting T. If looks could kill, I would be dead when she was leaving. I wish these naysayers in gloomy cloaks would just stay away.
Rant over.
Thank you for reading.
Aisling xxxx
I was with T today and lost the plot!! Invisible with him with a face that would turn milk sour. Not a word to T till she was going, then it was "goodbye with sad face. She saw another man and kept asking T if he know this man.... You should know him etc etc. kept insisting that T knew him. I lost it and said "you are upsetting T with these questions. How many times must I tell you that questions only confuse and upset him? Daggers drawn !! I was furious. Do some people not understand or not listen? She went off. I apologised to the man and explained quietly to him that T has Alyzheimers. He understood and told me that he knew him. He told T about things tim had done with his horses etc and this clicked, result a two way chat and T all smiles TG
I am angry with myself for loosing the plot but am sick and tired trying to explain to invisibles about the best way of supporting T. If looks could kill, I would be dead when she was leaving. I wish these naysayers in gloomy cloaks would just stay away.
Rant over.
Thank you for reading.
Aisling xxxx
I had a phone call from a friend of 50yrs, haven't heard from her since Ed went into care, she now wants to visit him, he doestn't even recognise his own family, why do these invisables want to visit after a year, l do have two friends who have visited every 3 weeks, he no longer recognises them, they are there to support me, which l find very comforting.
I don't know the answer to your question Aisling, but I imagine it is quite common. Of course, there's always a fair chance that medication is responsible or making it worse. I hope they get things sorted out for OH a.s.a.p.