My husband had a haemorroidectomy some weeks ago and since then has veered between constipation and diarrhoea. He takes laxatives and is very anxious and expects me to have solutions…I don’t. I have suggested he sees the g.p, he won’t.
This is the background to what happened yesterday. All was o.k, O.H had a nap in the afternoon but when he woke up he just looked at me and said ‘ well what are you going to do about it’ I found out he meant sorting out his bowel problem and when I said ‘ I don’t know, you won’t accept my suggestions ‘ he replied I didn’t care, was happy to see him struggling!
I was upset, angry and said I was going to the g.p’s in the hope of getting an appointment. I knew it was a long shot, late Friday afternoon, they were fully booked. The receptionist was very sympathetic, tried her best but in the end I filled out a form giving details and the clinician would call us.
I drove him to be met by husband who was ballistic, demanding my car keys and what was I up to. I was shocked, explained over and over and it just escalated. Suddenly he was demanding to see the house deeds as he was going to sell the house! While this was happening the clinician phoned and recommended a laxative regime, O.H took the call, ( Mr reasonable! ) but when the call was over was still SO angry.
He went to bed at 7 p.m and neither of us have slept. At 1 a.m he was looking at the house deeds, our wills and saying he was going to sell the house! I tried to placate him but he is demanding I call in an estate agent and get the house valued, before ‘ other people ‘ fiddle him out of the house. Impossible to distract him.
All I can think to say is estate agents aren’t making house calls because Covid is on the increase!!
Any other suggestions and apologies for the long post but am tired and exhausted.
This is the background to what happened yesterday. All was o.k, O.H had a nap in the afternoon but when he woke up he just looked at me and said ‘ well what are you going to do about it’ I found out he meant sorting out his bowel problem and when I said ‘ I don’t know, you won’t accept my suggestions ‘ he replied I didn’t care, was happy to see him struggling!
I was upset, angry and said I was going to the g.p’s in the hope of getting an appointment. I knew it was a long shot, late Friday afternoon, they were fully booked. The receptionist was very sympathetic, tried her best but in the end I filled out a form giving details and the clinician would call us.
I drove him to be met by husband who was ballistic, demanding my car keys and what was I up to. I was shocked, explained over and over and it just escalated. Suddenly he was demanding to see the house deeds as he was going to sell the house! While this was happening the clinician phoned and recommended a laxative regime, O.H took the call, ( Mr reasonable! ) but when the call was over was still SO angry.
He went to bed at 7 p.m and neither of us have slept. At 1 a.m he was looking at the house deeds, our wills and saying he was going to sell the house! I tried to placate him but he is demanding I call in an estate agent and get the house valued, before ‘ other people ‘ fiddle him out of the house. Impossible to distract him.
All I can think to say is estate agents aren’t making house calls because Covid is on the increase!!
Any other suggestions and apologies for the long post but am tired and exhausted.