I know Christmas week has been difficult for many of us here. We decided not to take Mum out of the care home but visit here there. She was still asleep when we got there at 11 (this isn’t uncommon, she has been sleeping more and more). She doesn’t seem to recognise my sister anymore (she was the only family member she ‘recognised’ although she thought she was her sister). She was not happy to see any of us and wanted to be left alone. We went back today and she was up, but she was hungry (gobbled up some sweets) but didn’t seem to recognise her sandwich and wouldn’t try it. She is non verbal and has been for a few years now and a bit deaf and so she can’t enjoy music or watch telly or read. Our visits used to be her high point, but she just seems not interested now. I miss her so much. We have done our best to make her environment bearable, soft bedding, a really good mattress and decorated the room. It leads out onto the garden which is nice. She has started falling out of bed though and I’m not sure what the solution is to this. Some sort of bed guard? She has fallen out three times now and the last time she bumped her head badly and it’s still all bruised.