HI, my name's Ruthie and my mother in law passed away in January leaving my 88 year old Father in Law on his own; we hadn't realised how bad his memory was until she died. We've had hospital / doctor appointments since January and have had it confirmed that he has 'age related cognitive memory decline', and been advised that he's on a slippery slope and it's only going to get worse. He's declined since January and we cope with daily carer visits, daily friend and neighbour visits, plus myself and my husband visiting and helping significantly. To start with he wouldn't talk about my mother in laws death, and it was almost as though she'd never existed, but recently he has just been sad and a bit emotional and says he doesn't like being on his own (despite at least 4 visits including carer every day). We're unsure whether we should arrange bereavement counselling given his memory issues (would that make it worse?? And if bereavement counselling is appropriate for him, should we find help with a counsellor who deals with dementia patients?
Any help gratefully received as we feel out of our depth in dealing with this.
Thanks in advance
Any help gratefully received as we feel out of our depth in dealing with this.
Thanks in advance