House Advice part 2

[Ineedhelp]

Hi All,

Hope everybody is doing okay. I opened at work and explained how bad I was feeling. I had a initally emergency appointment with Occupational Health and they will really good. OH advised when I feel sucidial get in touch with GP. I am still making daft mistakes on Monday, I corrected it easily but feel so stupid.
I am still greiving for my mum together with the Terrible Twins tormenting me and my niece/daughter. I have feeling pretty dreadful, I had today and yesterday off work. Tuesday is a scheduled day off and today was a A/L because I was suppose to be moving out.
I need to focus on positive things, I have got another interview, got to try on that. Christmas will not be great, but I need to focus that my mum and brother would to get on my life and look after Jordan. She is not in a good place, still unable to work with knee brace off but still on crutches. Jordan only getting statuory sick pay, I have offered to help out finacially but will not take it. She has went to stay with her pals, but she is a mixture of sadness/angry, she has had to leave the only home she has ever known and has lost the only mother she has every had. Moreover, her own mother is taking her to court for damages.

 

[Jessbow]

so are you completely moved now?

Dont worry boutthe siblings taking hertocourt for damages- if she hasnt caused 'damage' they willjust look silly if they have no case/evidence
What is the status with the house now? is it on the mmarket/subject to an offer?

 

[Ineedhelp]

so are you completely moved now?

Dont worry boutthe siblings taking hertocourt for damages- if she hasnt caused 'damage' they willjust look silly if they have no case/evidence
What is the status with the house now? is it on the mmarket/subject to an offer?

 

[Ineedhelp]

House is now on the market at £140,000 I need to go for £150,000 or more. Myself and Jordan did nothing to delay the sale.

 

[jennifer1967]

House is now on the market at £140,000 I need to go for £150,000 or more. Myself and Jordan did nothing to delay the sale.

if its on the market for £140,000 you are not going to get £150,000 as a person buying the house is probably going to offer lower than the asking price,ie. £140,000 not higher. would normally go higher to get the price you want so i wouldnt base anything on the amount you want.

 

[nita]

@jennifer1967 - I think the system is different in Scotland and is "offers over" - it goes to sealed bids. @Izzy will correct or modify this if it's wrong.

 

[jennifer1967]

@jennifer1967 - I think the system is different in Scotland and is "offers over" - it goes to sealed bids. @Izzy will correct or modify this if it's wrong.

oh ok sorry @nita i keep forgetting its scotland.

 

[Izzy]

@jennifer1967 - I think the system is different in Scotland and is "offers over" - it goes to sealed bids. @Izzy will correct or modify this if it's wrong.

Yes - it’s offers over in Scotland.

All you need to know about the 'offers over' system

If you are looking at purchasing a property marketed as ‘Offers Over’, the main question you will probably be asking is “how much will I need…

www.heraldscotland.com

 

[MaNaAk]

Ours went over the asking price but bearing in mind the cost of living it might go lower.

MaNaAk

 

[Ineedhelp]

Hi,
I got told by the solicitor by email the locks have been changed. The TT's are still going ahead with the court case but I have written to my mortgage advisior and solicitor who did the conveynancying to show my timeline. I will sit down and a draft a response to this case to my solicitor.

 

[MaNaAk]

Hi,
I got told by the solicitor by email the locks have been changed. The TT's are still going ahead with the court case but I have written to my mortgage advisior and solicitor who did the conveynancying to show my timeline. I will sit down and a draft a response to this case to my solicitor.

Dear @Ineedhelp,

I'm not sure if their changing the locks is legal. They really take my breath away I mean you own a third of that house!

Hugs

MaNaAk

 

[Chizz]

Dear @Ineedhelp,

I'm not sure if their changing the locks is legal. They really take my breath away I mean you own a third of that house!

Hugs

MaNaAk

The sale is by the persons acting as the administrators of the estate - the persons to whom the Letters of Confirmation has been granted, not by the beneficiaries of the estate.

 

[nitram]

They really take my breath away I mean you own a third of that house!

Beneficial interest only, the legal interest is held by estate administered by the administrator(s).

It would be different if the three beneficiaries opted for joint legal ownership and had the property transferred to them, perhaps considering renting out, before deciding to sell.

 

[Chizz]

Beneficial interest only, the legal interest is held by estate administered by the administrator(s).

It would be different if the three beneficiaries opted for joint legal ownership and had the property transferred to them, perhaps considering renting out, before deciding to sell.

It sounds a bit late for that now @nitram
Apart from lack of co-operation, amiability, etc between the parties over years.
One ends up with the relationships one has by small steps chosen.

 

[MaNaAk]

It sounds a bit late for that now @nitram
Apart from lack of co-operation, amiability, etc between the parties over years.
One ends up with the relationships one has by small steps chosen.

Yes and of course the issues over the wills. I hope @Ineedhelp is okay.

MaNaAk

 

[Knitandpurl]

Sounds to me as if the people who are going to make the most money out of this house sale are the solicitors and courts.

 

[Jessbow]

Sounds to me as if the people who are going to make the most money out of this house sale are the solicitors and courts.

I think you are right.
Quite ghow much will be left after all the solicitors bills,selling fees etc are paid wil probably be very little! I thing they will be lucky to come out with 100k between them.
Hopefully the end of this sorry saga is in sight

 

[MaNaAk]

Sounds to me as if the people who are going to make the most money out of this house sale are the solicitors and courts.

I agree and as @Jessbow says hopefully the end is in sight.

MaNaAk

 

[MaNaAk]

I hope you're both okay @Ineedhelp.

MaNaAk

 

[Ineedhelp]

Hi All,
Sorry for the delay in getting back to everybody. Some good news to report, case has been dismissed. My solicitor met me in the street to tell me that case was dismissed with no costs being awarded against myself and Jordan. I also learned that the locks have been changed, with the house still on the market.
Good news for myself and my niece, but she told me that she is spending Christmas day with her pals, so I am going to spend Christmas day on my own. I am not really looking forward to that. I will try and get into the Christmas spirit.

My niece is not coping with things, I am not coping as well. She left the flat on Friday night at 10pm saying she was fed up and going to stay with friends. I have had no contact with her since, I am at my wits end with her. I know she is hurting, I am as well. We lost our mum, our best pal, our world.

As per usual, I would love some feedback from the wonderful people on this site.

I hope everybody is doing well and get on with things .