mabbs.... I know what it feels like to not be recognised, and to be blanked.
Wide eyes... scared... trying to get away from me.....
You cant easily talk to friends and family about 'what it feels like' ... they wont understand.
Could you try (maybe) visiting at morning tea-break with cakes/ something yummy ?
Food was sometimes a good distraction for my husband....
(I'm a widow now, husband never in care, stayed at home with me...but I understand how you are feeling).
Tried the cakes bit this morning, eventually he did eat it, it would normally have been a distraction but not today. Try again tomorrow. x