Yes indeed ,thanks
@anxious annie , Mary has just left , Mum not quite as happy as usual but we had tears just before . She went to bed at 7.30pm last night , we had a big 3 course dinner and wine for husband’s birthday so think she was full up and tired , so consequently up from 4am , in and out and playing with dog and making ee bark , so got up early . All ok , had to nip out with daughter to shop , told mum I would be 10 minutes , she smiled and said ok , when I get back she is in her room crying , saying I thought you didn’t want me here , where in earth that come from who knows , gave her a cuddle and a coffee and helped her get dressed then Mary knocked . They stayed here in garden and I sat with them again for awhile , I really need to learn to go out ? I did take dog out for half hour in the end . Much better when they go out. Just get called to bathroom by youngest , wee in sink , over floor and toilet ,poo on floor, cleaned it up and Mum just said “I have soiled seat “ replied it’s fine it’s cleaned now , and changed subject as I don’t want her to feel bad. She has stopped using her pads weeks ago . Not that that would have stopped toilet accident. It really is a hideous disease , my lovely , smart , well groomed , sociable , kind caring mum reduced to this .? The small consolation is she seems happy most of the time .