Mum has been ok. Yesterday she was quiet but ok, we watched her fave films all day , early afternoon she went and put her shoes on so we were on alert for wandering ,after dinner I could see the face developing , asked if she wanted her slippers and a blanket , she nodded but I asked if she wanted to go and lie down on her bed , she did so I walked with her and shut her curtains and she was already putting pyjamas on , handy as I managed to sneakily grab the dirty ones she took off and tucked them under my arm , helped her get clean ones on and tucked her in , it was only 7pm , this morning she didn’t get up until 8.30am , I was shocked she had slept so long . Happy enough though and the day has been ok although I have cleaned kitchen cupboards out so have been in and out but she seemed ok . It’s almost like a switch flicking about 4pm when the sundowning starts , wandering about from room to room , picking things up and generally looking hugely confused , I try to just sit and watch out normal quiz programs . I never know wether to keep asking her if she is ok as I don’t want to draw attention to her struggling but want to help her feel calm . She had dinner ok but literally as soon as she had finished she starts glowering , I used to think it was anger but it isn’t it’s utter confusion and it’s so sad to see . She thought for a while and then spoke to husband , telling him yobs had torn down the big gates , he said oh don’t worry it’s all fine , she wasn’t placated I could see so I said oh the police have been and arrested them, they have gone now , it seemed to make a bit of a difference , she got up about 10 minutes later about 7.30pm and disappeared in her room , door was still open , we walked past about 10 minutes later and she was snoring like a train , so shut her door. She has gone to bed early for 2 days now , I am concerned slightly and may call the gp to see if he thinks we should increase her sertraline , been on it about 8 months at 50mg . Feeling very sad for her, I do normally but tonight l feel that I seem to not be able to help her much and maybe I should have done more , taken her to gp more but there has been no reason to as she isn’t going to get better than today, just don’t want to miss anything or leave it too late . Tom another day and will see how she is .