Thank you so much @Bikerbeth , you are so kind and make me feel better , It’s a big puzzle and also juggling game , feel I have a bit more of a grip this morning . I haven’t been out with pooch as she had hurt her leg quite badly so she was on strict rest , hoping to take her later .life is ok, people have it so much harder than me so I don’t want to whinge. Hope you and oh and mum doing ok. Thanks for the support, kind words and hugs , they all helped . XI am not sure why day care had to say that to you. You know it , but you need to take into consideration the whole family unit. So scream away.
You can say poor Mum but I can say poor Woo2. You are the person who is trying to make this work for the whole family and deal with everything else going on. So vent, scream and stamp your feet and hopefully it will help a little. I don’t think anyone can stop a decline though only adapt to a new reality and try their best when they are able to.
I am glad you are feeling a bit better but stop beating yourself up (again). You are only human not superwoman.
I don’t know if you are still, but can you still go out with your dog each day and hubby ‘look after the others’ just so you get some space for your thoughts and to give you a break. Sending more hugs to you