Oh bless
@Woo2 ? Big virtual hug. You scream away on here I'm not surprised you need to. You're certainly entitled to.
That must have been a shock finding them in the sink, your poor mum it sounds like she is really confused about the toilet now. Don't know how you can manage it but it seems she does need direction at loo now over what to do where. Not sure how your mum would react but could you maybe try standing at door and prompting her to stay on loo and put paper down it, not a pleasant job and mum might be embarrassed but it might help if she'd be ok with it. Fingers crossed you find a way round it X
Its such a shame your mums routine has been altered. There's going to be lots of altered routines over the next few months for quite a lot of us which is going to take some getting over and round when things are hard enough aren't they. I know it has to be done, we can't avoid it but I don't know how to cope with it either, it certainly doesn't make things easier for us to deal with does it.
Maybe you will all get into a new routine and mum will feel more settled after a bit longer with everyone at home,I hope so X
It must be hard for you trying to keep everybody happy and settled and I think you are doing really well dealing with a lot at once. I hope you're feeling better soon too as that won't help if you're feeling off it too ?
Take care of yourself as well as everyone else, you are doing a really great job x