Good morning
I’ve had to give up work to look after both my parents, mum has Alzheimer’s late onset and dads just crossed the line into dementia, waiting for retesting.
I’ve just had to start mum of tranquillisers to help with sundowning and she’s on her 3rd company of carers as she can be quite a handful.
Why does she now eat with her fingers half the time and is it worth the arguments to get her to use cutlery?
I know this disease changes her but she’s doing things she would never have done. She was the matriarch of the family and now I have to watch someone I looked up to and love be this person she is now.
She’s called me every name under the sun, accusing of everything under the sun and not talking to her. When I try she totally blanks me and refuses to talk.
I hate it, it breaks my heart to see and know that there’s nothing I can do.
This last 18 months has been so difficult, physically and emotionally. And I know it’s only going to get worse.
I’ve had to give up work to look after both my parents, mum has Alzheimer’s late onset and dads just crossed the line into dementia, waiting for retesting.
I’ve just had to start mum of tranquillisers to help with sundowning and she’s on her 3rd company of carers as she can be quite a handful.
Why does she now eat with her fingers half the time and is it worth the arguments to get her to use cutlery?
I know this disease changes her but she’s doing things she would never have done. She was the matriarch of the family and now I have to watch someone I looked up to and love be this person she is now.
She’s called me every name under the sun, accusing of everything under the sun and not talking to her. When I try she totally blanks me and refuses to talk.
I hate it, it breaks my heart to see and know that there’s nothing I can do.
This last 18 months has been so difficult, physically and emotionally. And I know it’s only going to get worse.