This whole situation seems to be causing you a lot of upset and I feel very sorry for you being in this position. I have just re-read the whole story from start to end.
I find the decision making as an outsider comes down to:
1. Pay the bill yourself
OR
2. Pay the bill yourself from mums account.
If you pay the bill from mums account it will upset her. If you pay the bill it will upset you.
So, who do you want to upset ?
Hope this helps ?
I find the decision making as an outsider comes down to:
1. Pay the bill yourself
OR
2. Pay the bill yourself from mums account.
If you pay the bill from mums account it will upset her. If you pay the bill it will upset you.
So, who do you want to upset ?
Hope this helps ?