Hello everyone,
I haven't posted for a while but I've been reading on and off.
My mum is in hospital today with multiple organ failure (a lung infection and her kidney (she only has one) seems to be failing now too). She's had Alzheimer's a number of years (diagnosed in 2018) and suspected Parkinson's disease for around 12 months. Her decline has been quite fast in a lot of ways. Before April she was still talking (even if it didn't always make much sense), walking, moving around etc. She lost mobility entirely and had to move to a care home, and around the same time or shortly after pretty much stopped speaking all together too.
About 10 days ago she had a seizure at the care home and was rushed to A&E. They found it was severe electrolyte deficiency. They had her on a drip for a day or two and then she was well enough to return the care home. Since then she's been okay-ish. On Tuesday when I last visited she was better than I've seen her in months. She was awake, alert and actually smiling at people. (She's been looking more through you rather than at you for a while). She seemed so much better I took photos to send to my sister who lives in the US.
The care home rang this morning to say she had very low oxygen levels and had been vomiting so they'd taken her by ambulance to A&E again. I think she might have gone there yesterday afternoon but the care home didn't call until today. They said they tried to call yesterday but there wasn't a reply. There is an answer phone though and no message was left, so 2/10 for effort for the care home, but that's a different matter. As it was, we were out yesterday afternoon as I had to take my dad to Hull hospital for a pre-op assessment. Because it never rains but it pours, they're checking my dad currently for lung cancer too.
I'm a bit in shock at how quickly the decline has been from seemingly fine on Tuesday to where we are today. I suppose in a lot of ways that's better but also... not. Me and my dad saw mum at hospital today. She was in resuscitation (despite having a DNR -- although they did say they would not to CPR if her heart stopped) and waiting for room on a ward. We've left the hospital because you can't really stand/sit at a bedside in there, you're in the way and there's a lot of other very ill people - although I'm not sure if we should have just stayed. I don't know how long things like this take - if she'll die very soon or if there will be a few days or what. We'll go back when/if she moves to a ward.
No point to this topic. I just wanted to write it all down.
I haven't posted for a while but I've been reading on and off.
My mum is in hospital today with multiple organ failure (a lung infection and her kidney (she only has one) seems to be failing now too). She's had Alzheimer's a number of years (diagnosed in 2018) and suspected Parkinson's disease for around 12 months. Her decline has been quite fast in a lot of ways. Before April she was still talking (even if it didn't always make much sense), walking, moving around etc. She lost mobility entirely and had to move to a care home, and around the same time or shortly after pretty much stopped speaking all together too.
About 10 days ago she had a seizure at the care home and was rushed to A&E. They found it was severe electrolyte deficiency. They had her on a drip for a day or two and then she was well enough to return the care home. Since then she's been okay-ish. On Tuesday when I last visited she was better than I've seen her in months. She was awake, alert and actually smiling at people. (She's been looking more through you rather than at you for a while). She seemed so much better I took photos to send to my sister who lives in the US.
The care home rang this morning to say she had very low oxygen levels and had been vomiting so they'd taken her by ambulance to A&E again. I think she might have gone there yesterday afternoon but the care home didn't call until today. They said they tried to call yesterday but there wasn't a reply. There is an answer phone though and no message was left, so 2/10 for effort for the care home, but that's a different matter. As it was, we were out yesterday afternoon as I had to take my dad to Hull hospital for a pre-op assessment. Because it never rains but it pours, they're checking my dad currently for lung cancer too.
I'm a bit in shock at how quickly the decline has been from seemingly fine on Tuesday to where we are today. I suppose in a lot of ways that's better but also... not. Me and my dad saw mum at hospital today. She was in resuscitation (despite having a DNR -- although they did say they would not to CPR if her heart stopped) and waiting for room on a ward. We've left the hospital because you can't really stand/sit at a bedside in there, you're in the way and there's a lot of other very ill people - although I'm not sure if we should have just stayed. I don't know how long things like this take - if she'll die very soon or if there will be a few days or what. We'll go back when/if she moves to a ward.
No point to this topic. I just wanted to write it all down.