HiSo the other X number of residents in the/their home have to put up with shall we say challenging behaviour from one person to suit you.
Sorry cant agree.
K
I see your point just worried where we go from here
HiSo the other X number of residents in the/their home have to put up with shall we say challenging behaviour from one person to suit you.
Sorry cant agree.
K
If you are replying here to the concerns by Hartwick, who seems genuinely worried and distressed, it sounds really unfeeling, the way you've worded it - I'm sure you don't mean to sound like that? Some of us are a way down the line with our loved ones and are a bit hardened off the the carehome/nursing home politics, but to someone who may be new to it all, it can be quite overwhelming and scary. It's all such a minefield and also doesn't help that it seems quite a postcode lottery too. Early onset Alzheimers must have been dreadful for you and your late wife and I'm glad to read that you were happy with her care.So the other X number of residents in the/their home have to put up with shall we say challenging behaviour from one person to suit you.
Sorry cant agree.
K
Completely agree @maisiecat. Mum also has Parkinson's together with dementia and for quite sometime was very restless at night, pressing her call button up to 15 times per night and shouting out. It took a while for the right combination and levels of medication to be found but her nursing home is very proactive in working with GP's, mental health and the Parkinson's team. Like you said, it does take a while to get that balance but a good care/nursing home is worth it's weight in gold in helping to get to that point. She now sleeps reasonably well through the night.I understand the night problem as my husband has Parkinsons and mixed dementia. He has always ,since diagnosis, at night been disturbed. They have worked through loads of medications and have found a combination that has helped so please don't despair just yet. Medication is complex and it can be a slow process to find the right combination. Keep talking to the Home and encourage the GP to speak to the mental health team.
Good luck
Thankyou for your kIf you are replying here to the concerns by Hartwick, who seems genuinely worried and distressed, it sounds really unfeeling, the way you've worded it - I'm sure you don't mean to sound like that? Some of us are a way down the line with our loved ones and are a bit hardened off the the carehome/nursing home politics, but to someone who may be new to it all, it can be quite overwhelming and scary. It's all such a minefield and also doesn't help that it seems quite a postcode lottery too. Early onset Alzheimers must have been dreadful for you and your late wife and I'm glad to read that you were happy with her care.
Thankyou it means a lot to know I’m not on my ownI understand the night problem as my husband has Parkinsons and mixed dementia. He has always ,since diagnosis, at night been disturbed. They have worked through loads of medications and have found a combination that has helped so please don't despair just yet. Medication is complex and it can be a slow process to find the right combination. Keep talking to the Home and encourage the GP to speak to the mental health team.
Good luck