I don`t need a plaque. Dhiren does`t need a plaque.
The ashes will be scattered to the wind and the sea. A very small quantity will stay with me.
Sorry if I was inappropriate in my last post. x
I don`t need a plaque. Dhiren does`t need a plaque.
The ashes will be scattered to the wind and the sea. A very small quantity will stay with me.
Sorry if I was inappropriate in my last post. x
morning Sylvia I wasnt sure what to say last night when I popped in
Such a difficult time, dear Sylvia, and people don't always know how to choose what they say. But they feel your pain, as of course you know. I'm glad you had a blue sky. The world is such a lovely place, and Nature heals in time. There are snowdrops and primroses in our garden. Sending you a nice gentle hug.Today was the most normal day I've had for a while .
I went to the hairdresser. I thought she would be safer than I would, not to wet the eye. I walked to the high street. It was a lovely day, cold but cheerful, with a bright blue sky. I could see quite well and was full of gratitude.
But then I met a couple of neighbors and had to tell them Dhiren had died. I had been dreading these situations. As soon as I saw the sympathy in their faces I became emotional.
And when I got home, another neighbor phoned, he thought it was a blessed release. His wife will be visiting next week.
And then I phoned the Funeral Director to make arrangements to collect Dhiren's ashes. Our eldest granddaughter will be coming home from university on 28th and we will scatter the ashes off the coast, keeping some back for when any family members visit India. Then the remainder will be scattered in the Ganges.
- but you know 2jays and that is what matters. Why don't you ask the Vicar if you could plant some daffodils or something else to remember your Dad by? Then you would have a focal point to remind you.No one would know that my dad ever existed when they walk through that church yard.
The Funeral Director delivered Dhiren`s ashes today ready for scattering next weekend.
They are not in an Urn, they are in a scatter tube and some are in 3 small containers which I can keep for scattering in the Ganges.
I feel he has come home.
The Funeral Director delivered Dhiren`s ashes today ready for scattering next weekend.
They are not in an Urn, they are in a scatter tube and some are in 3 small containers which I can keep for scattering in the Ganges.
I feel he has come home.