Me to Sylvia, yesterday in the supermarket i saw many elderly couples doing their weekly shop, Discussing what to have for supper and laughing together, it suddenly hit me like a stone, lump in throat, tears not far away, i told assistant it was hay fever, because if i had explained the torrents would have opened, think we are all strong when we have to be, its the little things that just trigger these emotions, So proud of you doing the comp course, i colid certainley do with it, but i would be too embarrased as a 1 finger typer, hope Dirhen is settled today love Pam