Already feeling very low this week with the endless boredom and frustration of living with my OH and his constant problems....... but this morning, I got up, took his breakfast in to him ( as I do at weekends) and noticed the trousers he wore yesterday thrown on the floor... that should have warned me, but I chose to pretend otherwise.
Now I know different.....
HIs stoma bag, which he does not manage well, had leaked. Well, more than that. He had been to empty it after I had gone to bed ( I go about 10.30 he goes about 2.30) but he had not done the fastening up on it.
He sat in his chair for goodness knows how many hours dozing and 'watching' Bull's Eye on Challenge TV. He stood up, to go to the conservatory to look for hedgehogs outside in the garden. His bag leaked from the sitting room, through to the conservatory ( floor, radiator etc etc ) before he noticed it. Instead of calling for me, he continued on his merry way, through a couple of other rooms into his bedroom leaking faeces wherever he went......
Happy Days - oh and some of it was on the brand new sitting room rug I bought about 4 weeks ago......
He is now sat 'watching' The Wheel of Fortune' while I write to you !!!!