I have a question. OH has needed an eye doctor appointment which means I have to take him. This has been put on the back-burner because I work full time and have had to take off for his neurologist, orthopedic, iinternist, physical therapy, etc appointments. His daughter took him to ENT thankfully. During the summer we worked 4 day work weeks so it was almost missing a part of a day a week. (oh,
@Amethyst59 When do I have a chance to be ill?) There are no times for my regular doctor appointments. (Disclaimer: I am taking 2.5 days next week for a holiday/vacation. which cuts into me missing work.)
So today, we had to come to work early so we get to leave early. I called him and mentioned maybe there's an eye doctor appointment available this afternoon and I can get you in.. He said he has already made an appointment. It's Friday at 4PM. I work. Oh, it may be at 1:30PM. I work then too. "I'll get somebody to take me." Who is somebody? The assisted living may drive him, but they drop him at the door and a family member has to handle PWD throughout the appointment.
He said he had to hang up and I know he's eating lunch now, but I must discuss this with him. AND, hence there will be a big fight. I have got to stop letting fights with him bother me. And, of course, we are not supposed to fight with them. His unreasonableness is beyond challenging.
My support group at Alz Assoc met yesterday and it was discussed that I step away. He is in a home. Also, his daughters wanted to take control, let them worry about this. The new song I have in my head
@kindred is "Let It Go!" I must let this go. Feedback appreciated, this means you
@canary!