Hello exhausted , Heidi , nae sporran and shedrech . I am so very sorry your dad isn't so well exhausted . In my job I have to ask many times about DNACPR ( do not attempt cardio pulmonary resuscitation ) as opposed to DNR ( do not resuscitate ) . The 'title ' was changed a few years ago to reflect this . The difference between the two is that the DNACPR means that you will treat the person up to the point that their heart stops and they have no output . They can still be treated with fluids , antibiotics etc . So if this is what you want , then you can make your wishes clear . However , I do agree that it a very stressful decision to make and one that cannot be taken lightly . My own mum took not well in 2014 and I was asked the same question . I told the doctors I did not want cardio pulmonary resuscitation but agreed to a treatment plan of oxygen and medication which was successful and my mum recovered. However I need to say that although this decision was right for my mum , it may not be right for your dad , exhausted . It's an awful situation to be in and I don't envy you but please be rest assured that you will make the right decision , whatever it is . Heidi and shedrech are right in that you will do what's best for your dad . I hope you and your mum are doing ok Heidi , also shedrech and your dad and of course rob and your OH. Everything okay with my mum and I . Keep us posted to allow us to support each other . Best wishes everyone and look after yourselves too . Lou X