It's been questions more or less all day, then loads of calls tonight. 1st one I was in such a panic hubby drove us to mums and we sat in street for 20 minutes till 9.
8.14 mum rang Where's the bairn? Thought a teenager been to see her then gone. Worried where she was and couldn't find her. Mum didn't know who it was, first thought me, then one of her kids kids. I said her kids grown up, both in our own homes. Mum said It's not you it's this girl I need to find her! She's about15. She was here earlier, she's done it before. I can't remember her name, what's her name? She was here earlier. I said I was there earlier but I'm home now. Mum said Not you it was a young girl, what's (my sisters) girl called. I told mum her name and mum said Her, that's her where's she? I said At home.
Mum said I'm going to look for her cos she wouldn't have gone home yet she won't know way she's too young to go on her own she's only 12. I said Everybody's home safe we're all fine no need to worry. Mum shouted You're not listening! I'm going to find her. I asked Where? I'm going out to find her she might have gone to my house she might be looking for me. I said Stay there that's your house. Mum said No its not I live with W. I said Its a mixed up memory cos it's late and your brain's getting tired. It's not! I'm at my mums and she might not know where I am, she might have gone looking for me, might be lost, she was here earlier then went. I said I was there earlier, I'm home safe now, it's fine. Mum asked Where's W, is he there with you? I said I don't know. Why don't you know? I said I haven't seen him you're not together anymore. Mum said Course we're together he was here earlier.
Then said I'm going now cos I need to find her. I said Don't go out, stay there. Mum sais Who's (sis) got, Has she got a girl? I said nieces name, mum said her Thats her! I said She's home she's safe so need to worry. Mum asked if niece was here and age of niece and saying that can't be her she's in scotland she couldn't have got all way here and home. I tried say again she was mixed up, everyone was home safe, no need to worry.
Mum shouted. Andie you're not listening I need to find her she's only 14 I'm going to find her. I'm going now. I said Don't go out mum. Mum said I'm going. I was in a panic and shouted Mum if you go out I'm calling police. Mum said I need to find her she might have gone to my house she won't know where I am I'm going to go to my house. I said Stay there nobody's been only me and hubby at dinnertime, You're remembering something old you need to stay there. Mum said Who's been today then? Me and hubby. She said Who's (sis) girl? I said her name. Does she live in scotland? Yes. Mum said Then she can't have been here then can she cos it's too far. I said No she's at home. She asked where I was and if I was ok, then asked where sis was, I said at home for both of us, thought she was calming down . But mum went back to niece, could it be her that came, this girl's only 14, she's been before and done this just gone. I said Well she'll be ok then. Mum said No I need find her I'm going to find her. Its fine mum there's no need to worry just stay there. Mum said No I'm going and hung up.
Hubby and I set off to mums, I was worried she'd go out looking for this girl. I rang on way over, I didn't say on way, just asked if she was ok . Mum started about this girl again,is it (niece) who's been, shall I go look for her. She's only 14 she won't know where I am cos I'm at my mums. She asked Who's (sis) got, what they called, has she got a girl? I said names. Mum said it's her she came earlier I need find her. I said She's at home she's safe. Mum said Shall I ring (sis) and ask. I said If want but she's home she's safe so you stay in now you don't need to find her. Mum said I'm at my mums. I said Thats ok you stay there. She said Ok I'll stay here tonight. I said yeah and I'll see you in morning. Mum said Yep ok but what about this girl she's only young? I said She's fine mum she's at home safe, we're all safe at home, you stay there tonight and we'll see you tomorrow. Mum said Ok but didn't sound settled.
We got to mums and parked lower down street, we thought we'd wait till door sensor was activated at 9, it was about 20 to when we got there. I rang to check she was in. Hello mum are you alright? Mum said I'm at my mums but I'm wondering where she is cos she's not in. I played along, I said She might be out and back later. Mum said She doesn't go out late so it's funny she isn't here. I said she might be on holiday, why don't you stay there till tomorrow cos she'll probably be back then. Mum said Aye She might I will I'll stay here tonight. I said Good idea. have you got tv on you're there? Yes. I tried get her chatting but mum said I wonder if she's at (mums brother) or mine? I was worried she'd try going home then so said No I'm sure she's on holiday. Mum said Probably, Oh but what if she comes back tonight if I lock up she won't be able to get in. I said She's got her own keys, she'll have them with her cos she locked up when she went. Mum said Do you think so? Yes, you've got spare set she has her set so she can get in. Mum said Oh yes course she will, Ok then love I'll stay here tonight and I'll come home in morning, See you tomorrow and we said Night.
We waited till bit after 9 then set off home. Mum rang at 9.08 I don't know where my mum is I'm at her's but she's not in. I said I think she's on holiday mum, think she's back tomorrow so stay there tonight. Mum said I will, are you at home? Yes I'm home. Where's W is he in? I said No he was out when I came in. Mum said He'll be at bloody pub the little ****, he doesn't even know where I am but he's gone out. I said Well don't worry, stay there tonight and have nice night without him, we're home and we're safe. I bloody will love, I'll see you in morning and we said night.
Rang 21.18 Are you at home? Yes mum I'm home. Is (hubby) with you? Yes. Is W in? I said No. Mum said He's a bloody **** he doesn't even know where I am and he's gone out bet he's gone to pub. I said Well we knew you were going to your mums we're all ok at home you stay where you are tonight. Mum said Did you see W when you got in? No he'd already gone out. Mum said Aye to bloody pub. I Don't know, He might be at work. Mum said I thought it was sunday. No Monday. She said Oh and I've been calling him names. But he probably won't go work he'll go to pub instead he's not bothered I'm not there, well I'm staying here tonight and I'm not staying with him no more I've had enough of him. I said You stay there tonight, have nice night without him we'll see you tomorrow. Mum said Yeah I will. But my mums not in I don't know where she is. I said She's on holiday we forgot it was today, stay there tonight and I'll see you tomorrow, I'll come pick you up. Mum said Oh yes, Do you know where it is? Yes I know where you are. Ok then love night.
Mum rang sis at 10.05 Mum said She didn't know where her mum was, she might be at club, might be on holiday. Asked where her kids were? were they at home? Mentioned about Sis being in scotland then asked why she was in scotland. Asked Where's our Andie ? sis said She's at home. Mum said Is she on her own? No she's with (hubby). Mum said Who's (hubby) Sis said Her husband. Mum said Our Andies got a husband? They are kids, but maybe our Andies got a boyfriend. Sis said mum went round a bit, then seemed ok and said bye.
Mum rang me at 10.14. Are you at my house? I said I'm at home. She coughed and spluttered said her tea had gone down wrong hole. Then mum said Where's our Andie? I said I'm our Andie I'm at home. She said Are you young one? I said Yes. Oh are yer, so are you home? I said Yes I'm home safe mum. She said Is (sis) home too? Yeah she's home. Mum said Oh is she good. I said We're all home safe. Oh good is other one in the young one? I said I'm youngest one mum I'm Andrea. You're Andrea, so who's other one? I said (sis) is home too. Mum said (sis) Yeah, there isn't another one ? I said No you've only got two, two's enough for anyone especially when its us two. Mum laughed, then said You're not in bed yet are you? I said No but we won't be long. Ok love, you said (sis) is home didn't you? I said Yep we're all safe at home. Oh that good, I'm still at my mums. I said Yes I know stay there tonight cos we're both ok at home and going to bed soon. Mum said Good, I'll stay here, see you in morning, and we said night.
Again at 10.25 Are kids in? I said We're all in safe mum, you just rung and I said we're all here. Mum said Oh right. I said We're all home safe so no need to worry, we just getting ready for bed. Mum said Oh right that's ok then, I'm still at my mums. Yes I know. Mum said I don't know where my mum is though. She's on holiday. Mum said Aye she might be, I'm not going home at this time. I said No You stay there we're all ok and getting ready for bed now so you sleep there and we'll see you tomorrow. Mum said Ok love see you in morning night.
Mum rang sis just before 11, said Do you know where I am? Sis said Yeah you're at home. Mum said I know I am stupid I've been sitting here thinking I'm at my mums and then realised that's my fan cos I've had it on. Ok. Mum said So are you at mine? Yeah I'm at home. Mum said Ok is W out? Yeah. Mum said Ok then love you sleep there and I'll stay here, don't sleep in that double bed though cos that's your dads and mine supposedly! No I won't. Mum asked Is our Andie home? Yeah she's in bed. Mum said Where are you going to sleep? I'll sleep in this bed. Mum said The little one in my room? Yeah. Mum said Ok I'm just waiting for my mum, she must have gone out so I'll sleep here tonight and be back in morning. Ok. Mum said I am stupid I've been thinking this was my mums house but it's mine, few more times then said Ok well you go to bed if you want. I'm in bed. Mum asked Which bed? Little one. Mum said Ok I'm sorry love, but I'll be home in morning, night.