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Hi. Breathe!!! 1. Have you done the Herbert Protocol??Had to leave mums tonight mid sundowning she got mad said shes had enough dont want us there tried to stay n tried talk her i to it but she kept sayin she’d go if we didnt. Tried to stand in way of door she pulled me out of way. Went outside back door n wudnt come in till i sed i wud go. Got her kept tryin convince her but was getting worse. So came home. My sister rang to tey talk to her but she didnt like what sis was sayin and hung up. Mum rang me and wanted me but was talkin load of rubbish bout where lived n my dad and me being child. Hung up when tried talking to her to calm her down. Rang her back minute later she wanted me go take her to her house. I told her bit of truth simply and in her house as going along with her reality hasn’t worked today. I tried get her calm down saying memory mixed up stay there get a sandwich and cup of tea and I’d have my dinner with hubby and ring her back later, cos we’d not had it at hers. Thought she’d calmed down bit even though didnt believe me but then started asking bout my dad again and her not living there. I told her again about having something eat might help her feel better and she went. I’m so scared she’ll go out. I’m scared to go back cos she is adamant I’m not me snd its friend who has been. But she is all upset on her own and was crying.
when she was telling me to go or she would earlier and talking about going back to other house on first call when i got in i told her to stay there and if she went out I’d call police and have her arrested. I don’t think that was my best idea but i was panicking and didnt know what to say.
My sister tried ringing memory clinic see if could give any advice or do snything they should be someone there till 8 but it was closed, probably due to everyone doing different hours for covid.
i don’t know what to do. Stay at my house and ring her again soon and hope for best and she settles down. Go over and try sit with her till nearly time for sensor again. Go back and stay with her. Risking her not recognising me and being back in same boat as earlier where i leave or she does??
its only just after 7 sensor doesnt come on till 9 and she’ll be up for hours yet. This is sh@@