When mum was clearly bonkers a social worker came and saw her and concluded that she was fine, with maybe a 'touch' of dementia. I was furious that my mum had been able to completely convince this woman. The psychiatrist, who SS did at least refer us to, told me mum was actually mid to late stage dementia.I was furious about the 'touch of' dementia, but I did get past it in the end.
Dave, you have to keep going with this, please don't give up on help. Ring your nearest Age UK office and ask for the dementia advisor. Will probably take a few days for them to get back to you but they can tell you what help is available and will also contact people on your behalf, takes a bit of leg work out of it. Just find your local Age UK office number and ask if they have a dementia advisor (they may not).
Also, time to see your GP and your wife's GP and relate the sorry stories of how stressed you are to them, they are also able to make referrals.
Please don't give up on help, it can be a fight to get it, but you need it. X
Dave, you have to keep going with this, please don't give up on help. Ring your nearest Age UK office and ask for the dementia advisor. Will probably take a few days for them to get back to you but they can tell you what help is available and will also contact people on your behalf, takes a bit of leg work out of it. Just find your local Age UK office number and ask if they have a dementia advisor (they may not).
Also, time to see your GP and your wife's GP and relate the sorry stories of how stressed you are to them, they are also able to make referrals.
Please don't give up on help, it can be a fight to get it, but you need it. X