Hi there - my first post. My mum is soon to be 76, and I would say middle to late stages based on what I have read on here.
She is incontinent, very confused and hallucinating, speech is poor, very teary, anxious and sad, has stopped eating as much and up many, many times in the night.
Does anyone have any tips for eating or sleeping?
She used to never say no to a biscuit or a cheese and tomato sandwich and she won’t even eat that now. Have found she likes sweet things more than savoury, but doesn’t seem a very balanced diet at all, but may be the only option.
Sleep wise she has my dad up sometimes 20 times in the night and keeps taking down her incontinence pants and makes a mess. My dad is shattered and recently had flu, which I think has been caused by a low immune system due to lack of sleep.
My sister and I are doing what we can, but, looking for any tips to ensure she eats or my dad can actually get some sleep.
I don’t believe we’re at the point of a care home and know my dad would be very resistant to that.
She is incontinent, very confused and hallucinating, speech is poor, very teary, anxious and sad, has stopped eating as much and up many, many times in the night.
Does anyone have any tips for eating or sleeping?
She used to never say no to a biscuit or a cheese and tomato sandwich and she won’t even eat that now. Have found she likes sweet things more than savoury, but doesn’t seem a very balanced diet at all, but may be the only option.
Sleep wise she has my dad up sometimes 20 times in the night and keeps taking down her incontinence pants and makes a mess. My dad is shattered and recently had flu, which I think has been caused by a low immune system due to lack of sleep.
My sister and I are doing what we can, but, looking for any tips to ensure she eats or my dad can actually get some sleep.
I don’t believe we’re at the point of a care home and know my dad would be very resistant to that.