That's one of the things I don't understand, hospitals and care homes know that people with Dementia can't always tell them how they feel or whether they are in pain, yes they have a pain chart people can point to but if the person doesn't know themselves how can point to a chart help? They should listen more to relatives who tell them what signs to look for, but they don't so many sufferers are being left in pain unnecessarily. I would go as far as saying some do not like the relatives interfering, you give them a synopsis of what has been going on and from then on whatever you say seems to go in one ear and out of the other.
I think it has just hit her about mum, she said she hasn't cried but she did when I told her and a bit at the funeral but none since then. I think she is thinking of her own mortality which isn't a good thing as I should know I think about it often, but she has eaten the soup I made and frozen some for another day. She has to have her blood re done not sure why but shall see when she sees the Dr, hopefully we will get her back to normal soon.
Yes, I'm clinically depressed and I am finding it difficult to deal with the fact mum is no longer here but lying in the cold damp earth, I doubt I will ever get that picture out of my mind. I still have to contact Cruse but its on hold until I get mums friend sorted, I had thought about asking her if she wanted to talk to someone but she really isn't the type for talking to strangers about anything. I hope people don't think I have gotten over the fact mum has passed just because I am doing things for mums friend, etc. or seem to be happy when I talk to someone, I'm not and I haven't!
No, I haven't smashed any plates lately, would love to go into a china shop and smash things but then I don't have the money to replace the items I break, and also it would be a real waste, so I doubt really I would smash anything. Pity they couldn't do a game on wii or something where you could go through the motions of smashing something without actually doing it.
I think it has just hit her about mum, she said she hasn't cried but she did when I told her and a bit at the funeral but none since then. I think she is thinking of her own mortality which isn't a good thing as I should know I think about it often, but she has eaten the soup I made and frozen some for another day. She has to have her blood re done not sure why but shall see when she sees the Dr, hopefully we will get her back to normal soon.
Yes, I'm clinically depressed and I am finding it difficult to deal with the fact mum is no longer here but lying in the cold damp earth, I doubt I will ever get that picture out of my mind. I still have to contact Cruse but its on hold until I get mums friend sorted, I had thought about asking her if she wanted to talk to someone but she really isn't the type for talking to strangers about anything. I hope people don't think I have gotten over the fact mum has passed just because I am doing things for mums friend, etc. or seem to be happy when I talk to someone, I'm not and I haven't!
No, I haven't smashed any plates lately, would love to go into a china shop and smash things but then I don't have the money to replace the items I break, and also it would be a real waste, so I doubt really I would smash anything. Pity they couldn't do a game on wii or something where you could go through the motions of smashing something without actually doing it.