Morning all,
Yep - definitely more time on Old Red than on anything else for OH, JM - its OK if Mil is reasonably calm, but last night she was quite agitated and a bit of a handful. He took her out to sit in the van whilst he worked, but after tea, she was back in the house again and it was hard work - not horrendously hard, just one of those evenings where it felt like it was a waste of time answering any of the constant repeated questions, because she just couldn't take on board anything said to her and I was left with ringing ears
She started with the 'baby' as soon as she was through the door from day care - where was it, should she fetch it, didn't it need its feed? She went up to the loo, and came down having changed into baggy grey shorts, teamed with a silk stripped shirt, telling me she was 'going out', so could she phone that man she is going to stay with? Nope, didn't know his name, or where he was, or his phone number, or even how she knew him but
I apparently should know exactly who she was talking about because he invited her in front of me - so could I ring him for her please, as she wanted to ask him did he fancy a night out?. Again and again I explained that I couldn't ring anyone for her if I didn't have the number and she just couldn't grasp it - she kept saying "You just have to push the numbers on the phone"
Then she announced he was a relative of P**** (one of the Irish nephews who rings her every now and again) and that this man had spoken to her when she was at P*****'s house 'last week'. And suddenly, Oh God - she had to get back to P***'s house now, to get the baby - what baby, I asked? 'Well, mine of course" - at this point OH walked through the door and that's how she ended up sitting in the van with him for an hour whilst I got on with cooking!
After tea, he asked her to come out with him again, but she said no - he
said he would just 'tidy up and come in' - yeah, must have been one hell of a mess, because I didn't see him again till after 8.30
Meanwhile, Mil jumped from 'baby' to 'little girl' to 'going home' to 'going out with the man' to (from 8pm till 9) 'I'm going to bed now' every 2 minutes. I can feel yet another 'Come to Jesus' talk coming on with OH!
The netties being a complete failure, I talked her into the extra super absorbent pull ups last night - she kept telling me that they 'don't work', but put them on - hoping now that they (a) stayed on and (b) were 'super absorbent' enough!
Plan today is housework, sorting camera gear (making sure batteries are charged and all my kit is nice and dust free) and a brief run into town to look for a suitable bag to carry stuff in at weddings - need some sort of a satchel with lots of pockets - I tend to carry things like tissues, blister plasters, spare confetti and odd props that I'll use to set up shots, and there just isn't room in the camera bag for them all.
Hope you all have as good a day as possible xxxxx