My husband has been in memory care since April 21, 2022. He has been diagnosed with Parkinsonism and dementia/cerebral small vessel disease.
He usually thinks he is in a school dorm or in a military barracks. He usually likes his 2-room apartment - it has a south-facing bay window and is light and bright. He does ask about going "home" (his childhood home) but accepts my telling him it will be in the spring - or in a month.
My heart-breaking times are the times that, when I leave, he says, "I miss you when you're gone" - or "I'm lonely".
The care partners at our facility tell me those feelings are just in the moment - that he forgets them once I'm gone.
I'm having trouble accepting that...
But is that the case for others on this forum? Are emotions that fleeting?
He usually thinks he is in a school dorm or in a military barracks. He usually likes his 2-room apartment - it has a south-facing bay window and is light and bright. He does ask about going "home" (his childhood home) but accepts my telling him it will be in the spring - or in a month.
My heart-breaking times are the times that, when I leave, he says, "I miss you when you're gone" - or "I'm lonely".
The care partners at our facility tell me those feelings are just in the moment - that he forgets them once I'm gone.
I'm having trouble accepting that...
But is that the case for others on this forum? Are emotions that fleeting?