Hi, I am new to this forum, and thank you for all the helpful posts on here.
After a bout of illness my mother was admitted to hospital a few months ago. She had been living at home with 4 care visits a day, which was proving inadequate.
Her GP advised me to consider finding her 24 hour care in a nursing home.
She has dementia and is uncooperative with challenging behaviours, selective memory loss and often displays violence.
After the hospital stay (for various acute conditions) she was eventually placed into a nursing home.
Very quickly, due to her extreme reluctance of being in the home (despite numerous meetings and explanations and her agreement) the nursing home applied for an emergency DOLs assessment.
This came through, and after 4 very difficult weeks of refusing food, drink and medication she ended up back in hospital.
The nursing home have now refused her to be discharged back there.
She is on an elderly ward, kicking and screaming (though she requires the assistance of 1 they had to call security today)
The social worker who was originally dealing with her has said it’s not his case any more.
I do not know what alternatives there may be for her future care as she cant just stay in hospital for ever? She does seem extreme with her terrible behaviour.
I have no experience of any of this and the whole situation is completely awful.
After a bout of illness my mother was admitted to hospital a few months ago. She had been living at home with 4 care visits a day, which was proving inadequate.
Her GP advised me to consider finding her 24 hour care in a nursing home.
She has dementia and is uncooperative with challenging behaviours, selective memory loss and often displays violence.
After the hospital stay (for various acute conditions) she was eventually placed into a nursing home.
Very quickly, due to her extreme reluctance of being in the home (despite numerous meetings and explanations and her agreement) the nursing home applied for an emergency DOLs assessment.
This came through, and after 4 very difficult weeks of refusing food, drink and medication she ended up back in hospital.
The nursing home have now refused her to be discharged back there.
She is on an elderly ward, kicking and screaming (though she requires the assistance of 1 they had to call security today)
The social worker who was originally dealing with her has said it’s not his case any more.
I do not know what alternatives there may be for her future care as she cant just stay in hospital for ever? She does seem extreme with her terrible behaviour.
I have no experience of any of this and the whole situation is completely awful.