When I look at TV footage of our Queen, who is 90, I think of all the other old ladies who are not so sprightly and mentally alert, including my mum and MIL. Whatever you think of the monarchy, and personally I approve of it, we have been blessed with a sensible hard-working woman as our Queen, who has inherited her mother's robust genes. I find it very heartening to see proof that not every old person is frail and confused. When you've lived in dementia world for a long time it seems like an inevitability for all old people, and it isn't. Not much help when you are at the sharp end Tin, I realise that, but it puts my own life in perspective. Maybe I won't get dementia, or maybe if I do there will be better treatments.
I can remember by grandmother and my parents talking with sadness about much loved family members who succumbed to diabetes, heart disease, tuberculosis, typhus, pneumonia, peritonitis, etc. when by the time they were telling me about these people there were effective treatments and cures for those things. It was a feeling of 'if only they had lived nowadays'. I live in hope that soon in this century there will be ways to help our mothers, or at least other people's mothers and fathers, husbands and wives.