I have been trawling the internet for information but I really don't know what I'm looking for. I've just had a distressing conversation with my 81 year old mother (dementia diagnosed about 2 years ago) who is convinced that I am looking after her young daughter who is pre school age. The girl has the same name as my 18 year old daughter and even after a brief conversation with her, Mum wants to know when I'm bringing 'her' daughter back as she is missing her. My 85 year old father is getting cross with her (they live 100 miles away) and I have explained to him that in her mind this all really exists. I don't know how to reduce this anxiety, concerned that if I show up at their home she'll be more upset as I haven't got the 'child' with me and if I go and bring them back to my house she'll be equally upset that the 'child' isn't here. I was wondering if anyone has had a similar experience and how they managed it