Hi, I'm new to the site and would really appreciate any suggestions here.
For the last year, mum's signs have been; getting lost, forgetting family member names, general confusion and odd behaviour (cheesy custard, grilled apple pie etc.)
Not too worrying I know, but I and other family members decided not to speak to mum about Alzheimer's as we believe her depression may reappear.
She has however, a part time job which she loves, (In her words, "It gives me a reason to get up") and unfortunately someone from her work has reported her as having dementia. She completely refuses to believe that she may have the condition and has actually said, "well, if I have dementia, I may as well end it all now".
It's a no win situation really, since mum stands a good chance of regressing into depression again if a test confirms her dementia or if she loses her job and from what mum tells me, I can't tell if her manager is going to insist on a test or not.
Don't think she would 'end it all', but obviously I can't ignore this.
It's great to know there are other people out there to talk to and my heart goes out to those whose situation is a lot worse
For the last year, mum's signs have been; getting lost, forgetting family member names, general confusion and odd behaviour (cheesy custard, grilled apple pie etc.)
Not too worrying I know, but I and other family members decided not to speak to mum about Alzheimer's as we believe her depression may reappear.
She has however, a part time job which she loves, (In her words, "It gives me a reason to get up") and unfortunately someone from her work has reported her as having dementia. She completely refuses to believe that she may have the condition and has actually said, "well, if I have dementia, I may as well end it all now".
It's a no win situation really, since mum stands a good chance of regressing into depression again if a test confirms her dementia or if she loses her job and from what mum tells me, I can't tell if her manager is going to insist on a test or not.
Don't think she would 'end it all', but obviously I can't ignore this.
It's great to know there are other people out there to talk to and my heart goes out to those whose situation is a lot worse