Hi all
I have just signed up to this sight tonight and am really hoping to get some advice.
My mum who is now 79 has been showing signs over the past 1 -2 years of dementia.
She is at the stage where she can not say in words what she wants to say, she can recognise letters and numbers but doesn't really know the meaning of them,and gets very confused with her money. She is very paranoid at the moment and thinks a lady that lives above her is breaking into the house and stealing things ,including her electricity and water. She thinks people on the tv are talking to her, and she talks to them and also to pictures on her wall, she is living alone and has always been very independent. We have tried to get her home care and assessed ,but she is flat out refusing and has gotten to the point where she wants to move back to England where she was born (we live in Australia and have since 1971) she is adamant that she is going and has started packing her things and throwing things away. We all know that she will not cope in an unfamiliar environment by herself , but don't know how to stop her from going. I know that she thinks everything will be fine once she gets back to England and there is no reasoning with her. She thinks that there is nothing wrong with her and gets very angry if we mention it , hence the decision to move to England. Please help
I have just signed up to this sight tonight and am really hoping to get some advice.
My mum who is now 79 has been showing signs over the past 1 -2 years of dementia.
She is at the stage where she can not say in words what she wants to say, she can recognise letters and numbers but doesn't really know the meaning of them,and gets very confused with her money. She is very paranoid at the moment and thinks a lady that lives above her is breaking into the house and stealing things ,including her electricity and water. She thinks people on the tv are talking to her, and she talks to them and also to pictures on her wall, she is living alone and has always been very independent. We have tried to get her home care and assessed ,but she is flat out refusing and has gotten to the point where she wants to move back to England where she was born (we live in Australia and have since 1971) she is adamant that she is going and has started packing her things and throwing things away. We all know that she will not cope in an unfamiliar environment by herself , but don't know how to stop her from going. I know that she thinks everything will be fine once she gets back to England and there is no reasoning with her. She thinks that there is nothing wrong with her and gets very angry if we mention it , hence the decision to move to England. Please help