Mil Very Near End Of Life ??
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Hi Carara
Just checking in to see how things are with you and the family. Hope all is peaceful. You must be so tired. I hope you managed to sleep yourself. X
Just checking in to see how things are with you and the family. Hope all is peaceful. You must be so tired. I hope you managed to sleep yourself. X
Hi again my lovely family members
Mil still here and she looks better
Her breathing is same breaths per minute
However I have noticed that when she breaths out its kind of like a sigh
Her in breaths aren`t as strong as they were last night either like faded slightly
Me & hubby stayed with her,however we did doze off on sofa,him on one me on other
Funny thing is hubby woke before me,must have thought mom had passed away as he woke me by saying "Bab,moms gone" I replied "oh nooooooo",angry for falling asleep
He`d not waited long enough for the breaths to start again ..poor sod,he`d more done in than me and he`s had alot more sleep
Noorza, Your comment about the nurse not knowing Mil .... Spot on chick
xx x
Mil still here and she looks better
Her breathing is same breaths per minute
However I have noticed that when she breaths out its kind of like a sigh
Her in breaths aren`t as strong as they were last night either like faded slightly
Me & hubby stayed with her,however we did doze off on sofa,him on one me on other
Funny thing is hubby woke before me,must have thought mom had passed away as he woke me by saying "Bab,moms gone" I replied "oh nooooooo",angry for falling asleep
He`d not waited long enough for the breaths to start again ..poor sod,he`d more done in than me and he`s had alot more sleep
Noorza, Your comment about the nurse not knowing Mil .... Spot on chick
xx x
Hi again my lovely family members
Mil still here and she looks better
Her breathing is same breaths per minute
However I have noticed that when she breaths out its kind of like a sigh
Her in breaths aren`t as strong as they were last night either like faded slightly
Me & hubby stayed with her,however we did doze off on sofa,him on one me on other
Funny thing is hubby woke before me,must have thought mom had passed away as he woke me by saying "Bab,moms gone" I replied "oh nooooooo",angry for falling asleep
He`d not waited long enough for the breaths to start again ..poor sod,he`d more done in than me and he`s had alot more sleep
Noorza, Your comment about the nurse not knowing Mil .... Spot on chick
xx x
It feels wrong to wish this was all over for you. But this poor lady has battled for long, she and you are going through this awful vigil. I so wish you some peace.
Hiya Noorza
Its not wrong now,she does need to let go
She had a wound on her arm near her elbow which was cleared up a while back (dont ask how she did it a no one knew and myself & carers cleaned it regular) and it had totally healed
Now,at the side of the scar there`s like blistering which came out yesterday,just appeared out of no where,the nurses documented it but today it looks like its filled with puss
What on earth is happening to her ?
Kassy,I think your right she is clinging to life
The sighs are getting stronger now and the in- breaths weaker
Mil is nothing like Fil in the sense that he was chatting(albeit double dutch to us) at 10pm and passed away at 5.30 am very peaceful .....Mil has clung on for what seems like eternity
Also would like to mention that if she passes away today it`s the 24th,same date as her hubby passed away (only his was April) and he also passed on a Wednesday too
I watched her like a hawk at 5.30am as that was same time he passed
x x x
Its not wrong now,she does need to let go
She had a wound on her arm near her elbow which was cleared up a while back (dont ask how she did it a no one knew and myself & carers cleaned it regular) and it had totally healed
Now,at the side of the scar there`s like blistering which came out yesterday,just appeared out of no where,the nurses documented it but today it looks like its filled with puss
What on earth is happening to her ?
Kassy,I think your right she is clinging to life
The sighs are getting stronger now and the in- breaths weaker
Mil is nothing like Fil in the sense that he was chatting(albeit double dutch to us) at 10pm and passed away at 5.30 am very peaceful .....Mil has clung on for what seems like eternity
Also would like to mention that if she passes away today it`s the 24th,same date as her hubby passed away (only his was April) and he also passed on a Wednesday too
I watched her like a hawk at 5.30am as that was same time he passed
x x x
At least she seems more comfortable now. Could it be a bedsore from lying down for so long or just a part of the body closing down. Dad was sitting up in bed and hugged us all in hospital the night he died, he passed a few hours later. That was devastating enough but you just have to be so drained. Apologies for stating the totally flipping obvious.
No Need to appologise hun,
I was actually thinking "you know my mil better then the nurses"
So sorry to hear about the loss of your dad,though it was nice he hugged you all when your close to someone its still darn hurts
Update on Mil :
She actually looks like hard rubber,sorry but its horrible
Breathing out breaths seem longer than in breaths now (if that makes sense)
Pulse is 53
She`s now losing blood from her back passage
That happened to Fil but his was different circumstances
Please God just Take her, this is torture
x x x
I was actually thinking "you know my mil better then the nurses"
So sorry to hear about the loss of your dad,though it was nice he hugged you all when your close to someone its still darn hurts
Update on Mil :
She actually looks like hard rubber,sorry but its horrible
Breathing out breaths seem longer than in breaths now (if that makes sense)
Pulse is 53
She`s now losing blood from her back passage
That happened to Fil but his was different circumstances
Please God just Take her, this is torture
x x x
Hi sweetheart,
I have been following your posts and I feel your pain, they have moved me to tears.
I hope mil has finally passed away so that she is out of pain, and so that you can come to terms with it, and have some peace.
You and your husband must be physically and mentally exhausted.
Please try to eat and drink, and if you can, take turns at sleeping. You must look after yourselves at this difficult time as you will need all your strength to deal with what needs to be done after her passing.
Sending a big hug,
Love
Janet.
xxx
I have been following your posts and I feel your pain, they have moved me to tears.
I hope mil has finally passed away so that she is out of pain, and so that you can come to terms with it, and have some peace.
You and your husband must be physically and mentally exhausted.
Please try to eat and drink, and if you can, take turns at sleeping. You must look after yourselves at this difficult time as you will need all your strength to deal with what needs to be done after her passing.
Sending a big hug,
Love
Janet.
xxx
I check in every day and can't believe that your mum is still here. She must be a very tough lady. This must be agonising for you, you have my every sympathy and my thoughts are with you. xx
No Need to appologise hun,
I was actually thinking "you know my mil better then the nurses"
So sorry to hear about the loss of your dad,though it was nice he hugged you all when your close to someone its still darn hurts
Update on Mil :
She actually looks like hard rubber,sorry but its horrible
Breathing out breaths seem longer than in breaths now (if that makes sense)
Pulse is 53
She`s now losing blood from her back passage
That happened to Fil but his was different circumstances
Please God just Take her, this is torture
x x x
I don't pray but I do "talk" to Dad to have a word with the big fella for help when I need it. I just "talked" to Dad to have a word for your MIL. I hope that doesn't sound too mad.
Your MIL is a tough cookie.I hope she passes peacefully soon.
You and your Husband have been wonderful, caring and so brave.
Thinking of you all.
Love from Lyn T
You and your Husband have been wonderful, caring and so brave.
Thinking of you all.
Love from Lyn T
Thankyou Noorza,so very kind of you
Thankyou Lyn,Sharon & Collegegirl for your support & kindness
1954,he`s okish....just wants it over now
Mil is like taking gasps now but regular ones
Wonders if she`s realised there are 2 half past five in a day
Her daughter rang and asked how I was
I just said torture ,I couldnt speak to her on the phone----shes going to ring back
*eck** invisbles
x x x
x x x
Thankyou Lyn,Sharon & Collegegirl for your support & kindness
1954,he`s okish....just wants it over now
Mil is like taking gasps now but regular ones
Wonders if she`s realised there are 2 half past five in a day
Her daughter rang and asked how I was
I just said torture ,I couldnt speak to her on the phone----shes going to ring back
*eck** invisbles
x x x
x x x
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